
I found The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Show during what astrologers would call my Saturn return- and what I would call a full-scale life reset. My relationship had ended (for the best), my car had broken down, I’d just been fired from a job I’d mentally checked out of years earlier (literally the worst place in the world, so thank god), and I had somehow managed to close on a house in a city I never wanted to stay in. At the time it felt like my whole world was falling apart but thank god it did. It shifted everything which looking back at now… THANK YOU @ the universe.
With everything crumbling at once, I did the only thing that felt productive- I turned inward. Blinders on, routines up, priorities shifting. But even self-growth needs a little outside noise, and that’s where The Skinny Confidential came in. The podcast became part of my daily rhythm- something to listen to while rebuilding, reorganizing, and slowly getting my life back on track.
Lauryn and Michael’s mix of expert insight and effortless banter made the show feel less like content and more like company. Between skincare deep dives, mindset conversations, and the occasional organizational obsession, I found myself taking notes- not in a “new personality” way, but in a “let’s start somewhere” way.
Lauryn and Michael don’t stay in one lane, the conversations span everything from beauty to mindset to the way you structure your day. Some episodes feel like a skincare masterclass, others like a productivity reset, and a few like the kind of lesson that quietly changes how you move through life.
Honestly, if The Skinny Confidential ever opened a school, the course catalog would be stacked- skincare science, wellness theory, personal organization, and a full elective on optimizing your mornings.
What follows is my edited syllabus- the lessons that stayed with me.
Beauty Secrets
- Brighten and tighten with peel pads. Dermatologist Dr. Dennis Gross recommends at‑home peel pads to brighten hyperpigmentation and tighten skin. They’re gentle enough for home use yet potent enough to reveal a glow . Pair them with his Vitamin C collagen eye cream for men (Michael’s “Him tip”) and you’ve got a universal hack.
- Microneedling for collagen stimulation. A beauty‑expert guest on the show explained that rolling hundreds of tiny needles across the skin creates micro‑channels that allow serums to penetrate and stimulate collagen production. The key is to use surgical‑grade needles; once a week can improve texture and firmness.
- One of the most unexpected beauty habits to come out of The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Show is mouth taping at night. The concept is simple: by encouraging nasal breathing, the face maintains better muscle engagement, supports proper jaw alignment, and reduces morning puffiness. It also promotes deeper, more restful sleep- which, as we know, is the ultimate beauty treatment.
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Check your vitamin levels. When esthetician Kate Somerville came on the show, Lauryn learned she was deficient in Vitamin D. She now supplements with a D3 formula and emphasises that listeners should have their vitamin levels checked regularly . Supplement founder of Cymbiotika, Chervin adds that methylated B12 and B6 support detoxification and natural energy.
- Ice everything. Lauryn’s signature product — the ice roller, emerged after jaw surgery. She swears by cold therapy: ice rollers, cold plunges and even chilled face towels to de‑puff and boost circulation . Try rolling while answering emails to stack habits.
Wellness & Health Upgrades
- Minerals are the new multivitamin. Chervin Jafarieh, co‑founder of the supplement company Cymbiotika, says modern soil is depleted. His top recommendation is Shilajit (a resin rich in 84 trace minerals) to support energy and cognition. He also touts liposomal magnesium L‑threonate (which crosses the blood‑brain barrier) and glutathione for detoxification. Quality matters- look for third‑party‑tested formulas.
- Habit‑stacking & morning optimisation. Lauryn credits her success to stacking habits: answering emails while walking on a treadmill, wearing a sheet mask while making breakfast and drinking lemon water while journaling. Her mornings begin with light exposure, movement, hydration and meditation, and she avoids looking at her phone for at least two hours. These micro‑habits create mental space and prevent decision fatigue.
- Seasonal eating for mood balance. A guest nutritionist wrote that adjusting your diet to the seasons can combat low mood during winter. Foods high in Vitamin D (like salmon), selenium (Brazil nuts) and omega‑3s (sardines or chia seeds) support hormone balance and help mitigate seasonal affective disorder.
- Digital detox your home. Tech health expert August Brice explained that electromagnetic fields (EMFs) and blue light from devices can disrupt sleep and relationships. Her tips: use wired internet where possible, keep phones out of the bedroom and give your house a “digital detox” at least once a year by turning off Wi‑Fi and electronics . Michael adds that moving devices out of the bedroom is an easy way to improve sleep quality.
- Replace bad habits with better ones.Lauryn walks listeners through a year‑end review: ask yourself what created energy, what drained it, who your “boat anchors” are and what you avoided because of fear . Then create a table listing bad habits and replacement habits- a practical tool for upgrading your routines.
- Read for growth. In another solo episode, Michael advocates for reading as a path to a better mindset. He suggests reading books you actually care about and using a three‑book rule to stay engaged: read multiple books simultaneously so you can switch when attention wanes. Learning from others’ mistakes will save you time.
Fashion & Style Tips
- Edit your closet like a pro. Stylists Danielle & Alix shared their method for revamping a wardrobe: switch to matching velvet hangers, hang most items instead of folding, organise by season and colour and invest in tools like boot shapers and purse dividers. Use the three‑month rule- if you haven’t worn something in three months, sell or donate it.
- Unexpected shoe theory. To elevate a neutral outfit, add a statement shoe. You don’t need dozens of trendy pieces; a bold shoe can make basics look intentional . Lauryn favours custom vintage jeans and quality basics (think gold hoops and crisp button‑downs) because they go with everything .
Lifestyle & Home Hacks
- Organise everything. In an early Q&A episode, Lauryn’s “her tip” was to give every item a place. An orderly environment reduces stress and saves time . Michael’s complementary “him tip” was to charge devices outside the bedroom to improve sleep quality.
- Give your routines a romantic twist. Lauryn’s product line isn’t just functional; it’s designed to make mundane tasks feel elevated- think pink bamboo face towels instead of makeup wipes or caffeinated sunscreen that leaves a dewy glow . The lesson: elevate your rituals so you look forward to them.
- Declutter your digital life. Beyond EMF reduction, schedule regular digital “closet clean‑outs” to remove unused apps, unsubscribe from unnecessary emails and clean up your camera roll. A tidy phone reduces mental clutter.
Business & Money Moves
- Use AI as evolution, not competition. Marketing mogul Gary Vaynerchuk told Lauryn and Michael that AI is the next evolution of the internet. He advises entrepreneurs to remain open‑minded, learn the basics and use AI as a tool to save time on tasks like scheduling or idea generation. Human creativity and judgment remain crucial.
- Listen to your customers. Functional mushroom entrepreneur Tero Isokuppila explained that he relies on customer feedback and reviews when developing products. This not only improves the product but helps you understand how to improve personally and professionally.
- Don’t fear saturated markets. Entrepreneur Kristin Cavallari reminded listeners that even crowded industries offer opportunities for innovation. Look for new angles or underserved niches and support fellow women along the way.
- Stand out with a purple cow. As noted above, creating a product or brand that’s remarkable- a purple cow- is key to cutting through noise. It can be as simple as adding a personal touch or aesthetic twist.
- Set micro and macro goals. Nutritionist Kelly Leveque suggests thinking in seven‑year and one‑ to two‑month windows: long‑term vision keeps you on course while short‑term goals provide momentum .
Mental Health & Mindset
- Let Them Theory & the five‑second rule. In her 2025 episode, Mel Robbins introduces the Let Them Theory: you can’t control other people’s reactions, so let them respond as they will and focus on what you can control. She pairs this with her five‑second rule- count down from five and take action before fear stops you, to overcome procrastination and live on your terms . She also emphasises that confidence comes from action, not thought.
- Curate your relationships. Mel’s advice dovetails with Lauryn’s year‑end review questions: identify who or what drains your energy and set boundaries accordingly . Recognizing “boat anchors” in your life frees up space for growth.
- Mindful phone use. Mel discusses navigating phone addiction and family dynamics: be aware of how much time you spend on your phone and set limits to preserve relationships . Lauryn and Michael often suggest leaving phones in another room during dinners or dates.
- Self‑care is efficient, not indulgent. Habit stacking is a form of self‑care for busy people: ice roll while walking, meditate while your coffee brews, hydrate while planning your day. Integrate self‑care into your schedule rather than adding more to‑dos .
Lauryn Bosstick’s pink-packaged empire might look glossy on the outside, but the real draw has always been what’s behind it. The conversations she curates move effortlessly from trace-mineral supplements and skincare rituals to habit stacking, business strategy, and even the future of AI.
Wellness, beauty, mindset, career- nothing feels off-limits.
And through all of it, one theme keeps showing up: start with trust. Trust your routines. Trust your instincts. Focus on building real value- whether that’s with your community, your body, or your everyday habits. The rest, the products, the aesthetic, the success- tends to fall into place.
Xx
Jennie Condie
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